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October 19, 2026 · 12 Minute Read

The Best Couples Sex Toys to Use Together

Toys made for two, sorted by how you want to use them: during sex, as foreplay, across the room or across the country.

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A couples toy is anything that makes sex better for both of you at the same time. That covers more than the small "couples" shelf in most stores. A vibrating ring, a bullet held in the right place, a remote vibrator worn to dinner and a positioning wedge can all be couples toys. The question is how you want to use one.

Choose by How You Want to Use It

You want... Best type Starting at
Extra sensation during sex, no learning curve Vibrating cock ring $20.00
Something small either of you can hold Bullet vibrator $18.00
Teasing on a date night or in another room Remote control vibrator $25.00
Play while you are apart App-controlled toy $69.00
To try light restraint together Bondage kit $20.00
Easier, more comfortable positions Wedges, swings and furniture See the category

If you are buying your first shared toy, start with the first two rows. They work during the sex you already have, which makes them easy to say yes to.

During Sex: Rings and Bullets

The most reliable couples toys add clitoral stimulation during penetration, which many women need to orgasm during sex. A vibrating ring does it hands-free: the ring sits at the base of the penis and the motor rests against the clitoris. A bullet does it by hand, so either partner can move it exactly where it feels best, and it works in any position.

Wearables and Remote Control

Wearables sit against the body during sex or under clothing, while a partner controls intensity with a remote or an app. Couples use them two ways: as an in-bed toy that stays put, or as a tease while out together. Look for a secure fit, a quiet motor and a range long enough for the way you plan to use it. Browse all remote control vibrators.

Long Distance: App-Controlled Toys

App-connected toys let one partner control the other's toy from anywhere with a data connection, and some pair a vibrator with a stroker so you can both feel it. They are the closest thing to being in the same room. Check that the brand app works on both your phones and that you are comfortable with its privacy settings before you buy. See every app-controlled toy.

Something New Together: Kits and Furniture

Once you are comfortable with a toy in bed, kits are a low-cost way to try something neither of you has done. A bondage kit with soft cuffs and a blindfold is the most popular starting point. Agree on a safe word first. A strap-on kit opens up role reversal and pegging. Positioning wedges and swings take the strain out of positions that are tiring to hold.

What Makes a Couples Toy Worth Buying

  • Quiet. You want to hear each other, not the motor.
  • Easy to position. Flexible arms and stretchy rings adjust to different bodies.
  • Waterproof and rechargeable. Easier to clean and nothing to run out of mid-session.
  • Body-safe silicone. Non-porous, easy to clean and compatible with water-based lube. See our lube guide.

Bringing It Up

The toy is the easy part. If you have not talked about toys before, read our guide on how to use sex toys with a partner. It includes words to use and what to do the first time. For ideas beyond toys, see how to spice up your marriage.

Questions

Frequently Asked

What is the best sex toy for couples who have never used one?
A vibrating cock ring or a small bullet vibrator. Both add clitoral stimulation during the sex you already have, so there is nothing new to learn.
Do couples toys work for same-sex couples?
Yes. Bullets, wearables, remote toys, kits and furniture work for any couple. Vibrating rings are designed for a partner with a penis.
Are app-controlled sex toys safe to use?
Use the brand’s official app, keep it updated and review its privacy settings. Most connect over Bluetooth locally and over the internet only for long-distance sessions.

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