Which Lube Should You Use With Your Toys?

Lube is the cheapest upgrade you can make to any toy. It makes play more comfortable, reduces friction and helps toys last. But not every lube works with every toy, and picking the wrong one can quietly damage something you paid good money for.

The Quick Rule

When in doubt, use water-based lube. It works with every toy material and every condom.

The Four Types

Type	Lasts	Safe With Silicone Toys	Safe With Latex Condoms	Cleanup
Water-based	Short, reapply	Yes	Yes	Easy, rinses off
Silicone-based	Long	Not recommended	Yes	Needs soap
Hybrid	Medium	Patch test first	Usually yes	Easy
Oil-based	Long	Varies	No	Needs soap

Water-Based

The all-rounder. It feels natural, rinses away easily and works with silicone toys, strokers and condoms. The only downside is that it can dry out, so keep the bottle nearby. Shop water-based and other lubes.

Silicone-Based

Silky and very long-lasting, and it does not wash away in the shower. That makes it great for sex without toys. Avoid it with silicone toys, because it can bond with the surface and leave it tacky over time.

Hybrid

A blend of water and silicone that lasts longer than water-based with a creamier feel. Test it on a small, hidden spot of a silicone toy before using it all over.

Oil-Based

Long-lasting and good for massage, but it breaks down latex condoms and can stain sheets. Keep it away from condoms entirely.

Special Cases

Anal play. The body does not self-lubricate there, so choose a thicker water-based or hybrid formula and reapply often. Pair it with a toy that has a flared base, like a butt plug.

Strokers. Use water-based only. Silicone lube can damage most sleeve materials. See our Fleshlight vs. Tenga guide.

Sensitive skin. If you are prone to irritation, look for lubes without glycerin, parabens or fragrance, and skip warming or tingling formulas.

Bottom Line

Keep a good water-based lube in your nightstand as the default, and add a silicone lube for toy-free sex if you like it. Browse every lubricant we carry.